Blog post originally written by the AllStripes community team. AllStripes was acquired by PicnicHealth in 2023.
Lindsey Flynt knows the complicated feelings that can result from a missed diagnosis. Around the time her son, Jax, turned one, she started noticing some developmental delays, and other unexpected physical symptoms. Jax’s doctor initially wrote off Lindsey’s concerns, and it was not until a therapist noticed Jax’s nystagmus (involuntary eye movement) that doctors ordered an MRI and discovered Jax had Leigh syndrome, a rare neurometabolic disorder. Lindsey has come to recognize how important her own instincts are.
Jax was born in December of 2012. He developed completely normally in his first year of life. After his first birthday, he caught the flu from my nephew, and just had some delays. We noticed that he quit walking. At that time he was pulling up on the coffee table to stand, and he quit pulling up on the coffee table. He had a few words: “Mom, Dad, bye bye.” And all of a sudden, all of that stopped.
We went to the doctor and I was like, "I think something's wrong. I feel like he's regressing. I don't know what happened." And she was like, "No, that's normal. He’s just delayed, it's not a big deal." But she had him evaluated just to check, and they recommended all the therapies — PT, OT, ST. We did that for a few months. His physical therapist, Erin, who he still sees today, noticed his nystagmus. To be honest with you, I didn’t notice. I saw his eyes move one time in the car, and I asked my daughter, "Oh my gosh, did you see Jaxson's eyes move? That was crazy. What was that?" But it wasn't a regular thing. Then Erin noticed it, and she called his pediatrician. We went to an ophthalmologist, and they said, "His vision's fine, but I think we should do an MRI of his brain."
Jax was diagnosed with Leigh syndrome. They told me he'd be lucky to make it to his 10th birthday. Most kids don't make it to five, but if you made it to 10, that would be a great ride. Early on, I was scared to approach his fifth birthday. It was like, "He could die anytime." But the more I was researching and the more people I met, I realized a lot of these kids are living longer. Now I fully expect my son to be here at 10 years old, and 11 and 12. But I think that’s because I just know so much more, and I'm doing everything I can. But my biggest fear is that at any age, he could catch something like the flu, and that would be it.
I hate that Jax’s doctor missed his diagnosis initially, but I think it's hard. She's been so wonderful. I have her personal cell number, and she texts me and checks on Jax if she hasn't seen him. She definitely goes above and beyond. So I wish that we had maybe known a little sooner, but at the same time, one of the things that I've learned over the years is that I know my son better than anybody.
I cannot expect a doctor and a 30-minute appointment a couple times a year to know even a fraction of what I know.
It’s my job to articulate what I see going on. I think it's so important if you have a gut feeling to listen to it. Looking back, there was this little piece of denial in me, too. I don't want something to be wrong.
For me, joining AllStripes was really about having accessibility to medical records and furthering research. Once you start working with all these different non-profits and physicians and researchers, you quickly realize that it's complicated to navigate. AllStripes makes it one step easier. Anything that brings all of our medical records and who we're working with together is a win for me. I wish we had done this years ago.
Jax’s life is so much bigger than what I would've thought when he was born. He's a happy kid. Anyone who's ever met Jaxson just falls in love with him. He's full of life and energy and always happy. I'm doing this because I want to help my son, but I'm also doing this because this journey sucks. I don't want other families to go through this. Collaboration is key, and that's what's lacking in research. With community, we're bridging that gap.
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It is important to make sure that you are fully empowered to make decisions on behalf of your loved one with Alzheimer’s. Your relationship status with the patient may not be enough to legally give you access to your loved one's medical information. It is a good idea to talk to an expert about securing special legal status, such as Power of Attorney (POA), a legal document that allows an individual to name someone as their decision maker should they no longer be able to make decisions on their own.
It’s important to have all of your loved one’s medical records together in one spot. This makes it much easier for you and your loved one’s physicians to accurately map the patient’s medical journey and more easily share information between doctors. Fortunately, tools exist to make record management and access simple. A free resource like PicnicHealth helps you collect and organize all of this information. PicnicHealth’s intuitive timeline allows you to pinpoint data across the medical history, eliminating your need for keeping heavy binders filled with paper records or keeping track of multiple software portal logins.
The better you understand your loved one's medical history, the better you can advocate on their behalf. Access and understanding of this information will help you to ask informed questions with physicians. Through regular communication backed by the data in the medical records, you can help your loved one’s care team develop a more successful care plan.
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There are many condition-specific support groups and support groups for caregivers generally in person or online. In addition to the encouragement and empathy they provide, support groups can be a helpful source of tips, resources, and recommendations for navigating caregiving.
The backbone of effective caregiving is organization. Keep medical information, appointment schedules, and medication lists in order. Use a planner or a digital service like PicnicHealth to stay on top of your responsibilities. This attention to detail can prevent future complications and reduce day-to-day stress.
We’ve seen incredible breakthroughs in treatment over the past couple of years, powered by patients and their caregivers participating in research. Stay in the loop about the latest in medical advancements and available resources that could benefit your loved one. Whether it’s a new therapy option or a community service that aids independence, being informed can make a world of difference in the quality of care you provide.
It may seem self-centered to focus on self-care—but when you feel good, you can be a better caregiver. Whether it’s exercise, a mindfulness practice, a soak in the bath, or just time to rest when you need it, carve out those moments in the day when you can unwind, reset, and stay healthy mentally and physically. Think of it as building up your reserves of kindness, patience, and understanding—which can only benefit your loved one. No one can pour from an empty cup.
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