Blog post originally written by the AllStripes community team. AllStripes was acquired by PicnicHealth in 2023.
Today, August 30, is Grief Awareness Day, so our links explore grief, in just a few of its many forms.
“The word grief has come to be understood solely as a reaction to a death,” writes Sarah Epstein, LMFT, at Psychology Today. “But that narrow understanding fails to encompass the range of human experiences that create and trigger grief.” In a fascinating and succinct list, Epstein goes on to explain four experiences of grief that are less likely to be discussed.
After her sister passed away from a rare form of cancer, writer Vauhini Vara didn’t know how to write about her — so she turned to AI for help. The result is a transformative exploration of grief and an absolutely phenomenal work of art.
“When Mark was diagnosed, I sometimes felt as if I’d caused his illness,” writes religion professor Elaine Pagel of her son Mark’s rare disease diagnosis. “Although I wasn’t a traditional believer, and didn’t take religious stories literally, somehow their premises had shaped my subconscious. Now I had to divest myself of the illusion that we deserved what had happened.” In this heartrending depiction of grief, Pagel’s professional background informs and quietly inflames her personal experience.
Megan Devine, the author of It’s OK That You’re Not OK, is a psychotherapist, grief advocate and communication expert who helps people face their toughest experiences. In this Once Upon a Gene episode, she speaks with host Effie Parks about misconceptions related to grief, advice for interacting with someone who’s grieving and more.
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List the names of all the doctors, hospitals, and other facilities your loved one visits regularly, along with those they have visited in the past. Try to go back as far as you can, striving for at least the last 5-10 years, but do your best. Even if you can’t remember them all, having a strong baseline can help you quickly identify gaps in records.
It is important to make sure that you are fully empowered to make decisions on behalf of your loved one with Alzheimer’s. Your relationship status with the patient may not be enough to legally give you access to your loved one's medical information. It is a good idea to talk to an expert about securing special legal status, such as Power of Attorney (POA), a legal document that allows an individual to name someone as their decision maker should they no longer be able to make decisions on their own.
It’s important to have all of your loved one’s medical records together in one spot. This makes it much easier for you and your loved one’s physicians to accurately map the patient’s medical journey and more easily share information between doctors. Fortunately, tools exist to make record management and access simple. A free resource like PicnicHealth helps you collect and organize all of this information. PicnicHealth’s intuitive timeline allows you to pinpoint data across the medical history, eliminating your need for keeping heavy binders filled with paper records or keeping track of multiple software portal logins.
The better you understand your loved one's medical history, the better you can advocate on their behalf. Access and understanding of this information will help you to ask informed questions with physicians. Through regular communication backed by the data in the medical records, you can help your loved one’s care team develop a more successful care plan.
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Learn MoreWhen you’re juggling appointment times and insurance claims, putting a robust support system together might not strike you as the most urgent task. Investing the time to cultivate relationships with people can turn to in times of need will pay dividends. The next time you need a last-minute ride or just someone to listen, you won’t be on your own.
There are many condition-specific support groups and support groups for caregivers generally in person or online. In addition to the encouragement and empathy they provide, support groups can be a helpful source of tips, resources, and recommendations for navigating caregiving.
The backbone of effective caregiving is organization. Keep medical information, appointment schedules, and medication lists in order. Use a planner or a digital service like PicnicHealth to stay on top of your responsibilities. This attention to detail can prevent future complications and reduce day-to-day stress.
We’ve seen incredible breakthroughs in treatment over the past couple of years, powered by patients and their caregivers participating in research. Stay in the loop about the latest in medical advancements and available resources that could benefit your loved one. Whether it’s a new therapy option or a community service that aids independence, being informed can make a world of difference in the quality of care you provide.
It may seem self-centered to focus on self-care—but when you feel good, you can be a better caregiver. Whether it’s exercise, a mindfulness practice, a soak in the bath, or just time to rest when you need it, carve out those moments in the day when you can unwind, reset, and stay healthy mentally and physically. Think of it as building up your reserves of kindness, patience, and understanding—which can only benefit your loved one. No one can pour from an empty cup.
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38% Female
15 providers / patient
7.5 years of data / patient
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